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Poge 6 The Advocate, Newark, July 19, 1979 People Here Negative words destroy relationships Cloer Encounters Zion is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Earl Zion, I'ierson Drive. ATTEND CONVENTION Mrs. and Mrs.

Russell Hoar and Mrs. La Mar King attended the annual national Jersey Diary Association convention in South Carolina. Following the convention, they took a side trip to Charleston and later the Lawson McLeond carousel dairy in Manning, Ohio. People news are welcome for this column. This Includes achievements, birthday celebrations for anyone age 75 years or older, retirement parties or other activities of special interest.

Contact Gloria Calentine Hoover, People Page Editor, The Ad- nt lir KT i. bickering, then no place becomes safe. The effects on the individual are often subtle and insidious. Many react by becoming withdrawn, staying alone and apart. Others may become hostile and aggressive.

These reactions may not be limited to the home but may become the way the person relates to almost everyone, especially those with authority or from whom love and respect is desired. Why? What is the person learning which is causing all this emotional strife? Basically, that whatever they do is not enough, what they are is not adequate, they are neither worthy nor lov Also, these everyday criticisms are usually conformist in nature, that is, they attempt to direct or train the individual into an acceptable pattern. While it is obviously important to be guided in such matters it should not be at the expense of the individual's uniqueness. Try an experiment in your home today. Have everyone only say negative things to you.

What kinds of feelings might you expect? Frustration, a sense of not being heard, having no penetration, defensiveness and anger are common. Not the stuff which personal satisfaction and loving families are built of. able. When the individual is left always questioning his self-worth, inner peace is difficult to attain. This does not mean that all criticisms or "helpful, happy suggestions" will result in emotional disarray.

It does mean that compliments, reinforcements, supports are an important part of learning and loving and communicating. Generally, the good things are overlooked and taken for granted because of the expectation that "that's what the person should do or be." Well, regardless of the "should" it "is" and should be acknowledged and rewarded. Mrs. Windle, a long-time member of the invitational Womans' National Democratic Club, said she was very active during past years in the organization in New York and Maryland. She was also associated with its speaker's bureau.

PARENTS VISIT Jean Carrelli, Linden Avenue, enjoyed a memory from the past when her mother brought her a morning cup of tea in bed. Jean's parents, Mr. and Mrs. John Anderson, Bedfordshire, England, are visiting with the Carrelli's through early October. The visit makes the third trip to the United States for the Andersons who expressed surprise about how "cheap everything is here." They also said that America is a "fabulous country." CELEBRATES BIRTHDAY Mrs.

Ernest Williams, Thornwood Drive, didn't have any difficulty blowing out the candles on her birthday inspite of the fact there were 95. Mrs. Williams celebrated the event with a dinner attended by friends. She received a plant from the First Baptist Church. PERFORMS AT DISNEYLAND Michael Zion is appearing at Dsneyland during the summer in the park's All-American College vocaie, 3 n.

mdiii iicwai By DR. LAURA SCHLESSINGER Copley News Service Many families will find their cohesiveness dissipated by silence, withdrawal, hostility or tension as one or more of the family members begins to alienate himself from the group. While there are many possible explanations, ranging from physical distress to psychological difficulties, these same behaviors may be reactions to the injurious, negative manner in which the family members relate to one another. Fright-cningly enough, many people don't even realize the extent to which they damge each other with "innocent, family small talk." Picture a typical family dinner: "You got an A on that paper? Boy, they must really be giving away grades at that school." "Can't you learn to eat slower?" "I just washed that shirt and it'a all wrinkled and dirty, it's impossible to keep up with you." "What did you do to your hair, it doesn't seem to lay right." "With what I pay for those braces you better keep them clean." "Do you have to chew so loudly?" "Well, thanks a lot, you could leave some of that for the rest of us." "I'm glad to see you're finally losing weight, about 40 pounds more and you'll start to look good." "No, I don't want to hear about that now, I've got my own SHIRTS HONOR BOSS Ollie Joerg, operation supervisor in the Erie Division at State Farm Insurance received a surprise when he arrived at work on his birthday. His 11, all-female unit employees, were wearing pink t-shirts printed with the words, "Ollie's Dollies." Joerg was presented with a birthday cake, a printed t-shirt and whistle to summon his employees for the day.

Employees participating in the event were: Helga Degenhart, Joyce Zitko. Kay Montgomery, Maggie Roberts, Carla Giblin, Jackie Fown. Debbie Ford, Betty Jones, Cindy Casebolt, Janet Corbin and Julia Hardin. GIFT COSTS RECEIVER Herb Odle, president of Rotary Club of Newark, presented Donn Alspach, Coca-Cola Bottling Co. with a Coca-Cola scarf from Rome during the July 5 meeting at the Sheraton.

Odle said everywhere he went during the Rotary International Convention in Rome and following European trip, he saw souvenirs of the popular drink. He decided to purchase one for Rotary member, Alspach, knowing the gift would "cost" Alspach $1. Odle explained it is a "fun" joke to fine Rotary members for various reasons including having Engagements worries." "Keep those elbows off the table." "What do yo want now?" Etc. Taken individually, each one of those comments seems harmless enough. "Grief, I was just kidding boy are you sensitive." The problem is that for many families the percentage of such "negative messages" is too often much greater than the percentage of positive messages, breeding both hurt and ill-feelings.

This constant barrage of negativism undermines the security of the family unit and each individual. Ideally, the home and the family represent safety, warmth, support and nurturance, the one place where you can let down, be yourself and be accepted and loved. Besides representing a solid, dependable foundation from which to risk ventures into the world, the home and family are incredibly important to each individual's sense of well-being and self-esteem. For children, in particular, the home is where behavior, attitudes, relationship skills and personal identity are learned and reinforced. When, instead, the home represents constant challenging, criticizing, sarcasm and petty cPeople one's picture in the paper, or public acts creating attention.

DELEGATES RETURN Mr. and Mrs. Jack Kelley, J. L. Phillips and James S.

Phillips have returned from the 92nd annual international convention of The Order of United Commerical Travelers of America in Chicago. The delegates were four of 1.4000 attending the four-day convention which renewed a commitment to aid mentally retarded citizens. ATTENDS AUDUBON WORKSHOP Judith Clister completed a one-week course in field biology and environmental studies at the Ecology Workshop in Greenwich, Conn. Miss Clister, recipient of a Columbus Audubon Society scholarship, was one of 23 special students studying weather, geology, astronomy, plant and animal natural history. ATTENDS WHITE HOUSE TEA William Windle, Granville, was a guest at Mrs.

Rosalvnn Carter's tea party at the White House July 12. The tea. attended by members of the Womans' National Democratic Club, gave the women an opportunity to visit the first and second floor public rooms. Mrs. Windle said the tea was a beautiful affair with tea, sherry, cookies, sweets and fruit.

"After the tea, we assembled on the South Lawn, where Mrs. Carter spoke to us," Mrs. Windle said. She related the president's wife "looked beautiful, was very petite, appeared more blonde than her pictures and was dressed in beige silk." Mrs. Windle said Mrs.

Carter spoke of the Camp David meeting and the problems accumulated over many years which will require long-term solutions. Swiss loaf serves eight By CECILY BROWNSTONE Associated Press Food Editor BRUNCH FARE Egg Scramble Swiss Loaf -Fruit Coffee SWISS LOAF Savory concoction! 1-pound loaf unsliced bread cup butter Office of SnptroUr of tbr CarrtnrB, "Washington, tit lcLi Wlirrrns. ly scUisfaeUry evidence pretexted to the undersigned, Marching Band. Zion is one of 44 young men selected through a nation-wide audition. Band members perform and attend classes designed to as it appear that She iZAJt 1.

afec'x 1 medium onion, finely diced (about lt cup) cup chili sauce 2 to 3 teaspoons celery seeds 8 slices Ci pound) Swiss cheese Cut 8 equidistant diagonal slits almost through to bottom crust of bread. In a small skillet in the hot butter, gently cook onion until wilted; stir in chili sauce and celery seeds and heat. Spread half of onion mixture between each slice of bread, inserting a BliA nf Muau after I 4 cIeunion in the of lS, -no sist them with show business Crothers family MICHAEL ZION Stale of i rganized under and according to the refiiir-M'iifs of the i entitled ''eStn, to provide a SValional t'it)rri, secured United States 3ondt, and to provide for i iniihtin and Toof" approved jfune SS4, and has with all careers. Included in the list of class instructors is Frank Corn-stock, composer and arranger for the "LaVerne and Shirley" and "Happy Days" television shows. Place loaf on a foil-lined cookie sheet; pour remaining onion mix-" ture over top.

Bake in a pre- heated 350-degree oven about 20 minutes. Makes 8 servings. i i hit x.LXr lri ROBERT WILSON Allen Crothers, Stacy, Angela and Shelly; Wayne Perkins, and Tonya; Kenneth Crothers and Jason; Kenneth Bogle, Kenny fr. and Cody; Robert Savage, Anita. Roberta and Nellimae; Paul Coss Tommy and Timmy; Mmes.

Elsie Crothers; Roger Lane; Donald Deaver; Neil Wilkin; Don Tignor, Angie and Michael; Ronnie Glass and Amanda; George Hughes. Donna Georgette and Jerry; Warren Myers and Teresa; Mike Bush and Stacy; James Bogle; Martha Guisinger; Mary Conard; Esther Levingston; Alice Coss; and Vicky Crothers, Vera Gostrue, Linda Crothers, Jessica Crothers, Rita Schofield, Amy Crothers Leslie O'Hara; and Messrs. James W. Crothers, and George Green. The 1980 reunion is the second Sunday in July at Armco Park, Zanesville.

The 36th annual reunion of the Crothers family was July 8 at Armco Park, Zanesville. Officers for 19S0 are: Robert Crothers, president; Charles Crothers, vice-president; and Ruby Bolen, secretary-treasurer. Attending were Messrs. and Mmes. Wallace Crothers: Lawrence Bolen; Richard Crothers; Elmer Crothers, Karen, Steve and Judy; Charles Crothers, Ruth May and Jon; George Crothers; Allen Bogle, Danny and Tim; James Dial, Laura, David and Boger; Robert Crothers, Regina, Roseanna, Dana, Tony and Kris; Curt Bowman and Ruby Ann; William Crothers, Kelly and Billy; Scott Stickle; Rick Crothers, Aaron and Sarah Ann; Louis Mitchel, Mark, David and Nathan; Dan Good; Rodney Guisinger; James The original charier of the First National Bank returned "home" Tuesday after Robert Wilson presented the document to the Licking County Historical Society at its annual banquet at Moundbuilder's Country Club.

The document, issued March 3, 1865, initiated the bank under the presidency of Jerome Buckingham who served until his death in 1902. Buckingham's home was later acquired by the historical society and moved to its location on Sixth Street. Wilson, vice president of real estate at BancOhioFirst National, was chosen to make the presentation because he is the "longest" employed person. Wilson said when he began at the bank 42 years ago, the office had eight employees, one second-hand adding machine and two used bookkeeping machines. The only desk belonged to the president; the late Edwin C.

Wright. Elite Swiss education losing face ALL SPRING SUMMER MERCHANDISE REDUCED NANCY SINSABAUGH Dr. and Mrs. Charles F. Sin-sabaugh, 120 Jefferson are announcing the engagement and approaching marriage of their daughter, Nancy, Luxembourg City, Luxembourg, to Paul Heinerscheid, son ofMr.

and Mrs Rene Heinerscheid, Luxembourg City, Luxembourg. The bride-elect is a graduate of Emma Willard School, Troy, New York. Harvard College, Cambridge. Harvard Business School, Boston, and is a marketing researcher for RTH Productions, Luxembourg. Her fiance is a graduate of Swiss Federal Institute of Technology, Zurich, Switzerland, Harvard Business School Boston, and is an assistant to the president, Radio-Television, Luxembourg.

An August 31 wedding is planned. 50 21 OFF SHUT going to school in Switzerland is worth the $18,000 a year it costs me." Although most Americans receive tuition allowances for their children if they are on assignments abroad, many seem to feel that the changing face of Swiss private education has brought problems negating the obvious advantages that Switzerland offers. Parents say that the large enrollments of children with English a second language have brought down the level of teaching and that many of the schools are taking students with inferior academic records just to keep their heads above water. Also, strictness that was once part of the Swiss boarding school's reputation has given way to the usual problems schools face in the 1970s, including drugs, parents argue. For British parents, it seems mainly a question of money.

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